Without wanting to put a damper on anyone, I’m sure you’ve all noticed the weather take a turn these past few days and noticed that Autumn is knocking at the door… And, with the colder weather comes Halloween in but a few weeks’ time!!! It would therefore be a good time to start thinking of ways we might celebrate this holiday. Oh, you have no parties planned? That is not a problem! You can still organise yourself your own special party in your bedroom with the one you love – Or if you prefer, be adventurous and try someplace new!
Wearing a costume and slipping into a role is not only really fun, it is actually very good for you and can add a bit of spice to the mundane flow of things. It often help with ones image of oneself and can help rekindle that “je ne sais quoi, that might be missing!” Too often, our inhibitions and fears make us reticent to act on our desires; our day to day image of ourselves does not typically project the image we’d like unless we operate in the adult business! Well, Halloween is a perfect time to change this! You have a perfect excuse to put on the “skin” of another character and play a fun and exciting role.
First of all, start by picking a character/role you’d like to play. It is not necessary to go with the typical stereotypes like nurses and firemen. You can choose to dress-up as a fairy, a samurai or even your favorite videogame character! What’s important is to feel truly excited about the role chosen. If you are not really sure on what you’d like to play, take the time to look at various sexy costumes you may find on various websites. 3wishes is probably the site with the broadest collection. Browse through the online catalogue and ask yourself if you were to attend a dress-up masquerade ball and you were certain that no one would recognize you, what costume you’d like to wear most? Which one do you find the sexiest? Which one compels you most? It is not necessary for it to be “sexual” to start. Personally, I love video games and fantasy books and my absolute favorite Disney character is TinkerBell, as many say her personality truly resembles mine! So fairies, for me, have a special place in my heart; there must be one stuck within me!
So you’re going to tell me you don’t have the physique up to the task. That you have a few extra pounds and these costumes are all built specifically for super models and bodybuilders. Stop thinking that way! Realize that depending on where you are from, in certain countries, as much as half the population have a few pounds to lose. You are not alone. Then, Take the time to look at these costumes that just might do the trick. They are specifically designed to hide imperfections and emphasise the positive aspects of ones physique in the Plus Size collection.
For those of you that are not seamstresses by nature and would still like to find a “sexy” version of their favorite characters, there are many sites offering a wide variety of choices; 3wishes, Oya Costumes, Udreamy Costumes,… So go ahead. Halloween does not only need to be a fun holiday for the kids!!!
For those of you who feel uncomfortable dressing up in the bedroom, I will propose to you, tomorrow in the second part of this article, certain things that should ease you into the mood.