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It is possible to live in a relationship in 2011

November 21, 2011 By Leave a Comment

Due to the intense reactions received by my article “Living a celibate life with a Silicon doll!” addressing the website aimerlecelibat.net, I chose to make this subject the debate of the week. The question here is not to determine if you are ok or not with the concept of living your life as a “single” forever or if it is still possible, in todays day and age, to live in a loving relationship ‘till death do us part. In reality, I’d like to hear from you our readers what you think of the declarations made on this site proclaiming the liberation from the oppressiveness of women! Evidently, I am not in agreement on the values vehicles by this site but as a woman, my opinion is none too surprising I guess!

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Living a celibate life with a Silicon doll!

November 21, 2011 By Leave a Comment

OK so a few days ago I fell upon a website that I found quite ridiculous and probably the saddest as well that I have seen in quite some time. Put online by a young man of 26 years old, aimerlecelibat.net openly promotes, not only the celibate life but also living with silicon dolls as a valid replacement to male/female relationships literally denigrating them. Now let me make one thing clear to start off, I have not quarrels or issues with people who chose to live in celibacy for various reason or that chose to use dolls for sexual fun. But from this to defining it as the ultimate solution for all of society because, due to our personal experiences in life, relationships are impossible to make work in today’s society is farfetched to say the least.

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Read The Next Chapter

November 13, 2011 By Leave a Comment

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Do You Think Sexual Promiscuity Of Teenager Is Getting Problematic?

October 31, 2011 By 2 Comments

This week we address the question on sexual promiscuity in our teen community. The debate on this subject has been raging in many social spheres where some consider that our youths behaviors are totally out of control and that our teens are simply non-educated (or wrongly) on the sexual matters and irresponsible, causing a massive recurrence of STD’s, some of which had been near irradiated (more than 300% in some cases), where others simply see a trend that repeats itself believing that things are no different than when they where young!

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Put Love In Bed

October 26, 2011 By Leave a Comment


“It’s not about how much you do, but about how much love you put into what you do that counts.”

~ Mother Teresa

 

It’s true in everything, also with sex!  Technique is not the only thing that matters in bed.

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I Love Him But He’s Gay!

October 24, 2011 By Leave a Comment

I recently participated in a discussion on a forum concerning a young woman in love with a homosexual friend asking herself the question is it possible to make a gay person turn heterosexual? Many diverse answers followed ranging from “Never mind it’s impossible!” to “Never give up hope, he might eventually fall in love with you regardless of his sexual orientation!” while going through the “He’s young, he has time to change his mind.”

What do you think? Is it possible for a someone to simply change their sexual orientation and fall in love with this young woman?

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Homophobia In Highschool

October 23, 2011 By Leave a Comment

OK, I know I was supposed to talk to you today about vaginal orgasms but, please forgive me if I push this to our next article as I was taken aback just now by a news article that made the rounds of the media couple days ago that has me quite emotional right now. Let’s talk about homophobia, intimidation and sexual education in highschools.

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Dr. Pepper Ten Sexist?

October 17, 2011 By Leave a Comment

This new add from Dr. Pepper is currently generating World War 3 on the “Interwebs” where many feminist militants   consider its content sexist and unacceptable.

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Consented But Not Desired!

October 12, 2011 By Leave a Comment

I fell this morning on a really interesting article on Frank Love Blog about the distinction of rape and regretted sex.  As our debate of the week is about sexual aggressions, I though that this article would add more meat to your reflexion.

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Is there an acceptable context to sexual molestation and/or rape? Can it be justified?

October 10, 2011 By 3 Comments

Just by looking at the statistics we can clearly see that the classic case of the young girl walking a dark street at night coming back from the library getting dragged into a back alley and savagely raped by a sinister stranger is not the majority of cases. On the contrary, the vast majority of victims actually already knew their aggressor. In addition, a large percentage of these aggressions, known as “date rapes”, often happen in the context of a date; “blind date”, bar outing and so forth. Sometimes, the young lady, having had a bit too much to drink, does not necessarily seem disinterested by the guy making advances. But, is it sufficient to justify an act with such heavy and long reaching consequences?

This is the difficult question of the week!

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Does Penis Size Matter?

October 3, 2011 By 1 Comment

View the popularity of my recent article presenting stats on the average penis size around the world, it seems obvious that this a subject you guys like.  So now it’s the time to tell us what you think about that.  Does it really matter?

 

What do you think? To your debating pens!

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Being A Sexually Liberated Woman… What Does That Really Mean?

September 24, 2011 By Leave a Comment

Here is an awesome article that you should find quite interesting (I know I did!)  It addresses a problem of perception of what the sexual liberation of women is and should be. I don’t want to steal the thunder from the author so go and read it.

Women today want to be liberated, treated as equals to men and be free to act the way they want, but in fact, they get more and more stuck in this false image of liberation and in this pattern that sexually liberated women should offer themselves to anyone in the most provocative fashion possible.  Actually, being sexually liberated should be feeling free of saying no without being scared of loosing their “cool” and express sexiness without the need of over exposure of skin! In reality, this perception of freedom is in fact the opposite!

The Big Sexy Problem with Superheroines and Their ‘Liberated Sexuality’

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