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Sadly, human beings are often to busy looking at bad stuff that they forget all the good around them. But today, we will be different. When you are with your loved one, focus on all the positive and tell him(her) what you like in him(her), what hooked you, what attracts you. You’ll see, it will be a lot more useful than telling him (her) what needs to be improved and taken with a smile!
All tips and tricks can be very interesting and helping to put some spice to your life but you need to think a bit before trying it in your relationship. Indeed some relationship issues can lead people to misinterpret your actions when at first you had nothing but good intentions. Offering a nice massage to your partner when in the middle of a dry-spell can be taken as a harassing way to lead to sex. So don’t jump so rapidly to conclusions take the time to think things through!
Finding your soul-mate means finding a partner that possess the qualities considered for us essential or, at a minimum, important. The physique, the personality, the career are often criteria we establish in our search for that special someone to share our life with. Unfortunately, finding this unique individual we paint in our minds is often difficult if not impossible to find! Having now unmasked and eliminated our emotional parasites as well as worked on understanding our strenghts and weaknesses and how to put our best foot forward in the hunt, let’s now take a look at where we should establish our standards in what we seek in that other someone.
OK so a few days ago I fell upon a website that I found quite ridiculous and probably the saddest as well that I have seen in quite some time. Put online by a young man of 26 years old, aimerlecelibat.net openly promotes, not only the celibate life but also living with silicon dolls as a valid replacement to male/female relationships literally denigrating them. Now let me make one thing clear to start off, I have not quarrels or issues with people who chose to live in celibacy for various reason or that chose to use dolls for sexual fun. But from this to defining it as the ultimate solution for all of society because, due to our personal experiences in life, relationships are impossible to make work in today’s society is farfetched to say the least.
I recently participated in a discussion on a forum concerning a young woman in love with a homosexual friend asking herself the question is it possible to make a gay person turn heterosexual? Many diverse answers followed ranging from “Never mind it’s impossible!” to “Never give up hope, he might eventually fall in love with you regardless of his sexual orientation!” while going through the “He’s young, he has time to change his mind.”
What do you think? Is it possible for a someone to simply change their sexual orientation and fall in love with this young woman?
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Why is it that I can’t seem to interest anyone? This is probably one of the biggest questions people struggling to find love ask of me! Now that we have brought our parasites to light and we have squashed them, we are finally ready to forge forward and get cracking on putting our best foot forward.
In the first article of this series, we have already seen that many people, facing repeated failures in their love life, are too often haunted by skeletons in their closets. These skeletons, in an insidious way and often unconsciously, become a source of influence that negatively affects ones openness to meeting new people and getting seriously involved in a relationship. So, after studying the impact of our past relationships on our future love lives, it is now time to get active about moving onward get to clearing the cobwebs from the closet! For those who are just tuning in I strongly suggest you take the time to read the first article dealing with emotional parasites. So without further ado, let’s see get started!
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Meeting your soulmate… What a fabulous idea! Evidently, everyone wants to meet their ideal partner with whom you share oh so much in common. Now we all know perfection is simply not of this world and eternal bliss without bumps in the road is simply not possible. However it is possible to find that special person with whom you can easily get along and share a very happy and fulfilling relationship. Why then are so many people constantly plagued by constant fails in their sentimental lives? Is it because they are simply less physically blessed? Less intelligent? Less easy to live with? No! Every Jack finds his Jill! Why then is it so difficult to find love? This series of 5 articles will reflect on this subject and hopefully help you get into the disposition to meet that special person.
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“Between what I think, what I want to say, what I believe I say, what I say, what you want to hear, what you hear, what you understand…there is at least 9 possible areas where the message just doesn’t come across right; lost in translation… But let’s try anyway.”
Bernard Werber
Here is an awesome article that you should find quite interesting (I know I did!) It addresses a problem of perception of what the sexual liberation of women is and should be. I don’t want to steal the thunder from the author so go and read it.
Women today want to be liberated, treated as equals to men and be free to act the way they want, but in fact, they get more and more stuck in this false image of liberation and in this pattern that sexually liberated women should offer themselves to anyone in the most provocative fashion possible. Actually, being sexually liberated should be feeling free of saying no without being scared of loosing their “cool” and express sexiness without the need of over exposure of skin! In reality, this perception of freedom is in fact the opposite!
The Big Sexy Problem with Superheroines and Their ‘Liberated Sexuality’
Seems a bit exaggerated but it is to often the truth. It’s no wonder that only a really low portion (10% Canada and 16% US) of all sexual aggressions are reported to the authorities.
Mentalities needs to changes!
A question that comes back frequently during conversations between parents is to what degree can we and should we be open about our past sexual experiences and choices with our children when they inquire? Does talking about our “experiences” when we were younger encourage our children to follow in our footsteps or worse use it as an excuse as to their own choices? Or, on the contrary, does sharing these experiences openly with the color and knowledge we now posess help cement a strong, open and honest parent/adolescent relationship?
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