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Are you frustrated with the monotony of touch during sexual relations? Well you are not alone! Many women feel the same. Truly, men sometimes lack originality and are often too direct in getting to the point as it pertains to entering the secret garden! Although these areas can offer marvelous sensations, there are many other erogenous zones, too often neglected, that simply deserve more attention!
Several weeks ago, I went out to dinner with a female friend. During dinner I asked her if she had seen Brokeback Mountain yet. She said, “No, I have no desire to see two men kissing all over each other.” I asked her if she would be willing to do me a favor and see the movie anyway. I told her I had a theory and I wanted to see if I was right about something, so she agreed. We met for lunch after she went to see the movie. I asked her what she thought – it turns out that she loved it. I asked her if she was turned off or disgusted by any of the sexual scenes; she said, “No, surprisingly enough, I wasn’t turned off by them at all.” I decided to take it a step further. I asked her if she was turned on by any of the scenes in the movie. Her face turned red and she said, “I have no idea why, but yes, I was turned on by them.” This isn’t the first time I’ve heard a woman say that after having seen the movie. I think I know why women are finding the sexual scenes in Brokeback Mountain so arousing, but before I explain, let me digress just a little.
Using our senses to optimize our sexual relations? It is self-evident. Everyone does it all the time! Regardless, if I was to ask you to think back to the last encounter you has and to tell me what was the texture of your partners skin, his or her temperature, their smell, their taste? Could you truly answer with sincerity and assurance? Or would you respond with a boxed response sounding something like; “Ummm the same as always I guess…”. Reality is that these are things that constantly change and are in perpetual flux; you should perceive these differences. Well in reality you could if you wanted to! Heightening ones sensibilities offers many advantages in love making; let’s take a deeper look and learn more on how to become more receptive and aware.
